Heat up the honeymoon with sexy lingerie styles in gender-inclusive fits from these inclusive lingerie brands.
Happy Valentine’s! Time to shop for a little something special, and be sure to make it a little extra spicy! The holiday for lovers is the perfect excuse to test drive some lingerie brands you’ll want to pack for your honeymoon.
It’s no secret the lingerie industry is dominated by designs made specifically for cisgender women. Happily, finding styles for every body type and identity is becoming easier. Buying sets that make you feel seen (and want to be seen!) is more accessible than ever. New generations of designers are creating pieces to make you feel confident, comfortable and sexy.
As our Valentine’s Day gift to you, we want to make shopping more fun. We rounded up some amazing designers and stores featuring supportive, sexy styles we know will make your February 14th (and beyond) mind-blowing.
Each item from their swimwear and lingerie collections are individually patterned for a perfect fit (or they’ll alter it for free!). Shop their myriad of accessories to enhance or alter, so you feel like the best version of yourself.
Based in Harlem, Lucky Skivvies’ entire collection of briefs and sports tops is joyful, colorful, confident, comfortable, and inclusive. As far as we’re concerned, there’s nothing sexier than that. We love the playful patterns, and comfortable and supportive tops!
Offering “straight,” “plus” and “genderfluid” sizes, the latter built with extra room for those who need additional space on the bottom half, and their collection of binders and tucking underwear put the fun in functional.
Woxer is a tried and true fan-favorite for a reason, and they just gave us one more reason to love them—they dropped their new “Spicy Valentine’s Collection.” We love the sexy colors, comfort, and even the affordability of their sets.
Canadian brand, Toni Marlow, makes comfort and confidence top priority in their three different styles. Designed with care specifically for women, trans men, and non-binary folks assigned female at birth.
Rebirth Garments are badass—bright, visible, fun, custom-made clothes for non-binary, trans, and disabled “mad queers.” Their styles are so much fun, from the sheer swim tops, to these short chaps and thong set.
It’s exciting to see a 40-year-old lingerie brand embrace inclusivity, and their lacey “Never Say Never” collection comes in a variety of styles and colors that are created for body form rather than gender labels.
Trans designer Carmen Liu is based in the UK and is exporting sexy, sultry, lingerie world-wide. There are plenty of hot looks to choose from, so we recommend you stock up on a variety!
Here’s a sexy Valentine’s date idea for a crafty couple— Madalynne, a Philly-based designer, sells custom fit lingerie designed for transgender women, but she also offers DIY lingerie kits. Custom make your sexy little something, like this Adrian. The kits come with all of the supplies and instructions you need to make your own sexy work of art to enjoy together.
Based in Brooklyn, NY The Rack Shack makes shopping fun with staff who know how to help you find the best fit and style. Order online from any of their incredible collections like their sultry Valentine’s Shop, or their extensive online selection, “People with Packages.”
Romantic and luxurious, their core lace collection is made in Italy and features briefs, shapewear and more, designed with the male anatomy in mind.
For over 25 years EnFemme has been serving ready-to-wear styles for people assigned male at birth who want to express their feminine with confidence and comfort. And their selection of pocket bras, lingerie, panties and more have everything you need for an unbelievably sexy Valentine’s and unforgettable honeymoon!
You can’t go wrong with black lace. Ever. And we love this beautiful lace bralette and panty set from the Zhe by Karyn Elizabeth. Although there are only a few styles to choose from, they are designed and made with care specifically for transgender women and femme identifying people.
You want to look and feel sexy, but teddies and garters aren’t your style. Try Urbody. Their selection is so pretty and made to fit all body types. The lace compression thong in pink gives such romantic vibes, we love it.
With sizes ranging from XS-6XL in a variety of trendy colorways, TomboyX is one of the most size-inclusive brands on the market as well. We love the matching sets that you can mix-and-match between compression bras, tucking underwear, boy shirts, briefs and more to suit your personal style.
FAQs About Inclusive Lingerie
What is gender-inclusive lingerie?
Gender-inclusive lingerie is designed for people of all gender identities, rather than being categorized strictly as “for men” or “for women.” These pieces often focus on fit, comfort, and self-expression, with thoughtful construction that works across a range of body types, including trans, nonbinary, and gender-expansive individuals.
What should I look for in inclusive lingerie brands?
Look beyond marketing and pay attention to how brands actually show up. Size range is a big one, but so is representation in campaigns, inclusive language, and thoughtful design (like adjustable fits or cuts that accommodate different body shapes). The best brands are actively designing for diverse bodies, not just adding a rainbow logo.
Are there lingerie brands that cater specifically to plus-size bodies?
Yes and thankfully, that list is growing. Many inclusive lingerie brands now offer extended sizing (often up to 4X, 5X, or beyond) and design with curves in mind, rather than simply scaling up smaller patterns. Fit, support, and comfort should never be an afterthought.
Is there lingerie designed for trans or nonbinary people?
There is, and it’s one of the most exciting shifts happening in the industry. Some brands specifically create gender-affirming pieces, whether that’s lingerie that accommodates different anatomy, offers more coverage or compression, or simply allows the wearer to feel more aligned with their identity.
How do I find lingerie that actually fits my body?
Start with brands that prioritize inclusivity in their sizing and offer detailed fit guides. Reviews can be incredibly helpful, especially from people with similar body types. And don’t be afraid to try different silhouettes — sometimes the best fit comes from stepping outside what you’ve been told you “should” wear.
Can lingerie be both comfortable and sexy?
Absolutely. The outdated idea that you have to sacrifice comfort for sex appeal is (thankfully) on its way out. Many of today’s inclusive lingerie brands are proving that you can have both — soft fabrics, flexible fits, and designs that make you feel incredible in your own skin.
Where can I shop for inclusive fashion beyond lingerie?
If you’re building out your full wedding wardrobe — from getting ready looks to honeymoon outfits — there are more inclusive options than ever. Planning your honeymoon look? Don’t miss our honeymoon packing guide for outfit ideas that feel just as good as they look.
