Deux Chic: Toi et Moi Rings That Double Down on the Sparkle

Translating to “you and me,” the toi et moi ring style is, by definition, utterly romantic.

Double the stones, double the love. Toi et moi engagement rings — featuring two gemstones nestled side by side — are the ultimate symbol of a perfect pair. Whether it's a mix of cuts, colors, or meaningful birthstones, these romantic rings are as personal as they are stylish.

“What's so great about the toi-et-moi style is the ability to bring unique shapes and gemstones in a variety of combinations to create something that's really uniquely you and your partner, and symbolizes two distinct personalities meeting,” says Jacob Lovendahl, store manager at Greenwich St. Jewelers. “Don't be afraid to play around with shape combinations, and how the stones are oriented. And be sure to look at them on your hand.”

Here are some of our favorite toi et moi designs that prove two really is better than one.

‘Perfect Pear' curved moissanite ring by Charles & Colvard, starting at $1,924.30

‘Cloud' toi et moi ring by Ring Concierge, priced at $1,648

‘Fancy' lab-grown sapphire toi et moi ring by LaFonn, starting at $215

‘Vela' emerald cut sapphire with round opal by Venvs, starting at $2,595

Zales x SHAHLA gap toi et moi ring by Zales, priced at $4,750

Diamond cluster engagement ring by Gilded by G.St, from Greenwich St. Jewelers, priced at $2,550

London blue topaz and lab alexandrite cocktail ring by Brilliant Earth (brilliantearth.com), starting at $1,990

‘Dara' cubic zirconia Ring by Sterling Forever (sterlingforever.com), starting $32

Emerald-and-pear toi et moi ring by Vrai, starting at $1,500

‘Gem Twin Stone' ring by Holden, starting price $1,499 
(This piece is part of a permanent collection that supports The Trevor Project!)

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*This was originally featured in Love Inc.'s V9 print issue, which can be purchased here.

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